Cheaters go to Hell
I have a friend who's been cheated on and again by the same guy, which just pisses me. This friend of mine is a gorgeous woman and a very kind-hearted person. But I can't help but ask, "Why do bad things happen to good people?"
I've been cheated on before. And for the record, I, too, have cheated once. I know, it's not something I'm proud of doing. But we all have reasons for doing so. Like I have my own reasons. Sometimes, cheating on someone would later do you good. But most of the time, cheaters get a taste of their own medicine which turns out to be a very ugly situation. We must not forget, KARMA is just around, waiting to get back on us.
Now, why do people cheat? It's the big question mark when it comes to relationships and break-ups. Usually, break-ups are caused by a third party. Based on my own experience, I kinda cheated on my ex-boyfriend. Because even if we're still together, I entertained a suitor. My reason? I wouldn't do that to my ex if I was happy with him. But then again, I wasn't. And I admit that I want to take revenge for the countless times he's cheated on me. I know, whatever my reason is, it's still a bad idea. It's still cheating. Now, believe me or not, when my ex boyfriend used to cheat on me, I've analyzed myself. What more does he want when I already gave everything he could ever ask for. Then it struck me. Because he's bored. Because I'm always there for him. Because I always give him what he needs. Our relationship became a routine. He dreaded seeing me and being with me, he's not really looking forward to anything anymore. So, I tried. I tried to bring the spice back, but I failed. I can never force him to feel for me the same way that I feel for him. Sucks, right? And so, someone interesting enough came around. We kissed. Baamm! I cheated. And now, I am very much happy because I chose the right person and I feel very much loved now. But not everyone is as lucky as me.
I guess whatever our reasons are for cheating on our partners, it's still wrong. I mean, dude come on, if you're not happy, just tell her! Cheating on her won't make things easier, you'll only make things even more complicated. Being open to your partner is a very important thing. You must understand what each other feels. It takes two to tango. So, don't be afraid to tell her what you really feel, no matter how badly it hurts. And to those who's been cheated on and again, the best thing to do is to WALK AWAY. 'Cause he's simply not worth it.
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